Herald - Lantern - Dispatch 5 |une '85

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Guard Has New Rules On Bridges

CAPE MAY -The Coast Guard is enforcing new drawbridge rules that have come about as a result of recent amendments to the bridge laws. The changes, which affect both the vessel operator and the bridge operator are as follows: 1. It is unlawful for a vessel operator to request a drawbridge to open for any unstructural vessel appurtenance which is not essential to navigation, or which is easily lowered. (The intent of the new rule is to avoid making the draw open when the vessel has a piece of equipment Nuclear War Film June 11 COURT HOUSE - A slide show on the medical consequences of nuclear war will be shown on June 11 at 7:30 p.m. in the public meeting room of the Cape May County Library in Cape May Court House. The show is sponsored by Jersey Cape Coalition for Nuclear Disarmament. For more information, call Jean Lloyd, 884-4631.

that could be temporarily lowered to permit passage beneath the closed bridge. Examples are outriggers on sportfishing boats, or callapsible radio and TV antennas.) 2. It is unlawful for a drawbridge operator to delay the opening of a draw unreasonably after the opening signal is given by the vessel operator. (This applies only during the time specified in each Drawbridge Regulation during which the draw must be opened on signal). 3. It is unlawful for the owner of a bridge, drawbridge or causeway to obstruct navigation, or make navigation hazardous, by reason of failure to keep the bridge or causeway, and any accessory works in proper repair. 4. Violations of these rules will make the person liable to a maximum civil penalty of $1,000 for each offense. 5. Complaints about alleged violations, by either the bridge operator or the vessel operator, should be sent to the District Commander of the Coast Guard District in which the drawbridge is located.

Our Readers Write Death , Taxes And Change To The Editor: Nothing certain except death and taxes? Change is also a certainty. The recent decision by the Cape May Zoning Board to permit a bank and a shiny new parking lot on a Columbia Avenue field was, I suppose, an inevitable change of the old Cape May lifestyle. That field was a good place to hear the peepers on an early spring evening. It was a good place for a ballgame after school. It was here the kids built their forts. There is also a path worn through that field made by a generation of kids scuffing back and forth to the elementary school. While the field is still in existence, perhaps some of the tourists who take the tours this summer ought to be led by that field for a glimpse of the past. Isn't that why a lot of people come to Cape May — to see what used to be? LIBBY DEMP FORREST Cape May Thanks for Publishing To The Editor: On behalf of the Evening Membership Department of the Wildwood Civic Club, I would like to thank the Herald and Lantern for publishing the articles on our donations to the Holy Redeemer Nursing Facility Hospice Program, Ocean Academy, and the article on the observance of the 95th anniversary of the General Federation of Women's Clubs, of which we are members. MRS. CHARLES J. VERSAGGI Publicity Chairman Wildwood Thanks for Coverage To The Editor: Just a short note of thanks for your coverage of our recent events. We thank you for being there and hope you continue your coverage of all our events planned for 1985. CHARLES T. BRADLEY Secretary Wildwood Crest Fire Co. No. 1

m^P * iP" Dori« Ward LONG JUMP — William Urle, 11. trips his shadow while trying a long jump during Hershey Track and Field exercises at Memorial Field, Cape May Court House, on Saturday. William, a fifth grader at Middle Township Elementary School No. 3. is the son of Mr. and Mrs. Frank Urie of Court House.

From The Principal I By Stanley Kotzen Principal, Lower Cape May Regional High School

When Bobby Newkirk graduates next week, his family will share in a very special sense of accomplishment. His. sister, Sandy, particularly will feel something unique as Bobby takes those few steps forward to receive his diploma. When his name is called and his career at Lower Cape May Regional comes to a close, she will truly be a part of Bobby's triumph. He will have done it with her kidney. To talk with Bobby Newkirk one would never be aware of this wonderful story of a family's closeness and sacrifice. You get a hint that there is something special about this young man because of his infectious good cheer and buoyant personality. HE HAS MUCH to feel good about despite the fact that he was born with Prune Belly Syndrome and has known since about the age of 8 that he could not live long without a kidney transplant. He has lived through what must have been severe pain, both physical and psychological, that culminated in a four-week stay in Children's Hospital. Philadelphia, in June of 1963. As Bobby describes it they had to "clean his blood" and artificially slo the job that failing kidneys could not. Time was running out for him and a donor had to be found. THE NEWKIRKS (Martin. Joann and their other five children) went to the hospital ~ to be tested in order to determine who among them as the "perfect match." Never before did that infectious

tune from Fiddler on the Roof have more meaning. Sister Sandy was the one best suited according to tests run by Dr. John Duckett at Children's, and according to the Newkirks, Sandy's only response was "What are we waiting for?" While she was at the University of Pennsylvania Hospital having her kidney removed, Bobby was around the corner at Children's waiting with surgeon Moritz Ziegler for his sister's gift of life. That was November 22, 1983. Three days later, on Thanksgiving, the family, including Sandy, stood around Bobby's hospital bed redefining the meaning of that day and encouraging him to get well fast. BOBBY HAS responded to that family demand beautifully. He returned to school here in the spring of 1984 and has had an eventful senior year. As a culinary arts major at Vo Tech, he plans to go into hotel and restaurant management as he continues his education. To hear him tell it, this has been a great year, highlighted by pep rallies, the senior trip, and feeling good. He is still somewhat limited in activities and cannot compete in contact sports. Sandy, who is now 23 and manager of a RiteAid Drug store, is doing fine too. % For all of the Newkirks, Bobby's graduation will be a real occasion to celebrate. He has accomplished much in his young life, but his greatest gift has been something he had no control over. He has had the great good fortune of being part of a wonderful family.

^ » r' ggaga i emW » loyride III By Libby Demp Forrest \J JJ^ 1

Birthdays. They come and they go. Every now and then, we mark a milestone birthday. I just had one of those birthdays. Around our house birthdays are big deals. Anyone who lives in my house knows when my birthday is coming because I leave notes up reminding the household. "You're worse than a kid," No. 2 said. "I consider that a compliment," I said. On birthday morning, I woke up before the alarm went off. When I looked across the room to the alarm clock. I couldn't see the time. WHEN I PULLED myself out of bed, my bones creaked a little. On the bedroom door. No l had posted a happy birthday sign. When F put on my glasses I could see it per fectly. No. 2 came downstairs singing happy birthday at the top of his lungs. "When are you going to open your presents, Mom?" he asked. "After dinner," I said. "I'm going to make this day last." "You're going to love my present," said No. 2. "I spent a lot of money to buy it." NO. 1 HAD MADE a happy birthday streamer and hung it in the downstairs hallway. "You always said you liked homemade things best," said No. 1. When the mail came I pulled the birthday cards out of the pile and threw the bills in a comer.

"I'm entitled today," I told No. 1 and 2. ./ When I came home from work No. 1 said, "I wish I had enough money to take you out to dinner, but I'm broke." • "That's okay," I said, sounding sincere. AFTER DINNER 1 open ed the cards and the presents. The Hubby and I had picked out my present during the weekend. I have given it back to him and had wrapped it and gave it back to me to open on my birthday. I passed the earrings around the table. No. 3 adopted son picked up his water glass and held it against his eye. He pretended he was a jeweler. "I believe this is one of the stolen jewels of Nairobi," he said. "I hope so," I said. No. 2 gave me a little tin with two cakes of soap * inside. "Do you know how much soap costs?" he said. "I've been telling you kids that for years," I said. NO. i s PRESENT was a coupon entitling me to a free dinner out when he gets some money. "It's got an expiration date on it," I said. "I hope 1 don't expire before I get to use this." "You're as young as you feel, Mom," said No. 1. "In that case," I said, "I'm 21 going on 22." "You almost look it," No. 2 lied. "Well, age is just a number to me anyway," I said. "In dog years you're 350," said No. 1.

ARIES: Conflicts between your home life and career make it necessary for you to remind others that you are in charge. Handling these matters diplomatically may earn you a raise or promotion. Be firm but judicial. TAURUS: Venus in your sign makes you more attractive, more creative and more loving. Someone living at a distance needs to hear from you immediately. Send love, encouragement and money, if necessary. GEMINI: This is a highly inspirational period for any kind of research. Career advancement requires that you get to the depths of things. In doing so. be inquisitive but cautious. Peruse tax records carefully. CANCER: Heed advice to Gemini, but apply what you learn to your relationships with others, especially with your mate or business partner. It is imperative that you select someone who understands the value of team work. LEQ: Read the fine print on all documents. Launch a health program that will enable you to keep physically fit as well as diet conscious. Someone connected with hospitals or institutions seeks your help VIRGO: Check your bank account before going overboard with extravagant purchases. You are apt to be in a luxurious mood, but the weekend finds you returning to your conservative self. Remember that worry is wasted energy. LIBRA : Heed the adage, "When the emotions are reigning the intellect takes a holiday." Strive to settle matters in a reasonable fashion Protect savings and nestegg from usurpers. Play the effective detective. SCORPIO: Make sure that insurance policies have adequate coverage. Expect long-overdue dollars to come back to you. Issues are clouded with a close relative or neighbor. Be sympathetic, not vindictive. SAGITTARIUS: Good luck arrives through the mails. A journey cements familial bonds. You can increase income through business know-how and your natural sales abilities. Be open to innovative ideas. CAPRICORN: Expect increased responsibilities, prestigious duties and recognition. Be neither hostile or stubborn: practicality counts. Others seek you out for advice and affection. Try warming up a bit. AQUARIUS: Secret help frees you from a karmic bond. Now that debts are paid and financial tensions have eased, enjoy the camaraderie of close friends and loved ones. A windfall is in the offing. PISCES: Those near and dear to you are either very inspired or deeply disillusioned. Praise them for their creativity, and boost their morale with cheerful thoughts.