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K-». «. F. 0*«kHI. u* 0 • p**" r - VraAchlne ou^ondAj mornlm: At 10 »L

In tltr efenlng At 7.4-V

M«AHit>cA tth A. m. aim! 6.S* *r u. *»n

Bu!h1»T»- .

Mandoy t>- Hdol «t 5 t*. m.

Epw .rth Le*gu« M oduy fyoulng At

8 oVIoch..

Mid-««M'k prmyr u«nrtae \Vorto«*»y

ereutug At^> »’cL»ck.

Cl*»» meeMnirv Ta«Ad»y, ThurAdoy

mod FrkUy ATWilnca. It UTIAT OCCRdte.

Her. Gmatsa Wtll.Anwt, T*u»tot

race to this UM rommandmrat that I

would apeak today.

There U a apodal rraaeo at this time for ahowtnc the need of a buaUnd being truly derotrd and lorlng to bis wife, lierauae then, ueenui to l«e a poi»ular theory abroad that the old faabloMd tdoa of a family Lome U gone and gone forerer. But, In at rad of belle v log that the old faabloued Idea of love abould he done away with.- 1 believe that, like the garden tieda which uaed to he planted In oar ant'e•to^|• front yard*, they abonld l»e cultivated mere and more. Marital afTectton may be old fnahloued. but I belleee It la one of tj>r nobleat, flneat. moat t*eautlfnl thing* In life. A'hat cootd be more tend<‘r. more pathetic, thim the wonla ntaered by the great Dr. Thomas De Witt when, atruggllng with trot table grief, he atood liy the oj>eu grave tn which be had Juat laid the mortal remnlna of bla beloei'd wife? He Nald: ••Farewell, my beloved and honored and faithful wife Tire tie' that united ua la severed. Thou art with Jenna In glorj'. "'“I *b« la with me'by hla grace. I shall eoon t»e with yon. Farewell." The Holy Book declan*. Whoeo dndelh a wife Undeth a good thing.*’ It 1« no patt of my pnrpoae to tell young aaen how thwr dhotild proceed In trying to win p* affect Ions of the gtrh they diwlre an aharry My design ml her la to urge

PraechlncVn Sandsy morntug *t Ul-WV m.npried men to show fthelr wives the

lu the evening at 8.00.

Sunday morning Wotker* Meeting at

10.00 a.U

Sunday School at 3.009* «. Wednesday evculn- grayer

8 oclsuk.

Young People’* Meeting Fnday

Ihg at'8 o’clock.

Men’s Meeting SA^rfiay eveninc at *

o'clock.

ST. BABV’s B-<- CHCBCB. Rev. Father D. J.*eUr. Rector. . Hours of divine werx ice on Sundawa, Masaw at 7 and « a. n. Sunday School atS.JO j-. m. Roaarv, sermon and benedaetion or the Most Blessed Snrrament at 7.* r n. All are invited ts attend the Sunday evening instructions at 7.30

DOVE YOER WIVES. Ren-. Dr. Talnaage Gives dis-

bands Good Advice.

■ M>f Home.

LOS ANGKLES. Cal.. June tb**.- days of nlilesprcad aeiraratlon and divorce, and -when the Integrity of the home la mwallt-d from wltbota and wifluln. the ndrhe- of the pre-.vber-who tain love forhlatheme may help** dlapelrthe clouds that now orarbangi a household. The text la Ephaalana Y, J3. ••Husband*, love yoar wlvaC" Thro atartlhag dacta oIkaB PaoTaperaonallty hare altrays vlvtdty Impneaed me The one da the ewUmate* aff bla phyalcal pemoamMty formed by hla •enemies In the Corinthian church .-who had- aat under Ids ministry and Mere fore knew him rwelL Pan! hluatel tells ns that abpy said, -ill* budil; prracnce la weak. end bla «peech.w»-ii temptiblo " flicjeoatom. according to' Albert Barae*. -declared that ••PmC’a stature was low. hla back e»>oked.*nd hla head hahl" According to XicePanl was a little man with the >^iine and a countenance, long and wrinkled, with a bead Dhe Julias Caeaar. noted for ttaiacarx-lty *€ hair. Whether descriptions are true, we know not but It .to little Okhly that the Corinthians -^s-ofikl have spoken of him they did. ami that writ era so ueur hi# own time aa Chrysostom and hii-cpbo-nis would have no described him. this Intellectual and siilritual glajit linil posMCKsod ud Imposing pernouaht). And yet all through the Pauline writings, figures of sj>eech bristle with the symbols of tbe athlete’s arena. Tbe runner, the fighter, the gladiator, tbe atruggle with the beasts of Ephesus, ail have their Inspirations and go*pel

teachings.

The second fact which stands aide by aide with the first about the per aonallty of Paul is tfato: Paul was a bachelor. It has been contended that be waa a member at tbe sanhedrin and. If so. most have been married, but the expression in Acts ZZYi, 10. on which the tjbeory of bla membership to baaed, to ragne and may have amounted to no more than the testlgnony of a witness. Ob the other hand, hla arganient to I Corinthians lx. ft.

dearly implies that both be and Bar- ku countrymen, acknowhalged that

* ' Thta the nrereooe and trust of bis devoted

tkm. however. I

Chat be was deficient la tbe affection- aM] Btlmulua to him all through hla

a to aide of hla aatare. Hla letters

show that be lavished on hla children Unjf by him on the poltocal rostrum or In tbe faith the tor* that other men - - -

give to their offspring sad that he was

air exceedingly affectionate.

they Abonld lor* thetr children and children that they ehtmkl care for their parents, wires that they should honor thetr bnebends and husband# that they should love thrtr wives. It to in rtfer-

■Batin- deference, tbe aamc love and devotion. that characterised them betorc the twala atood at «a- marriage altar, bearing awl saying The solemn wards which made them ena fietdt. Why to the true JB-Ife's value above the price of rubles as King Rotomon declared? She to her husband's buai-n<-H» iiartmT: liar buslMUtd'* egw-l in brain a* well as to heart pow«Y yU»e fights with hlia. to u financial way. tU great Iwttle eff life; tlien-fom like her hodumd. ahe dia* a right to exjiect the saint- rewaada for her labpn* that he baa for hla Hi liaa.bern ftnj habit of some cynics »> fepreeeut a wife aa S mere parasite. >R banger on. a clinging vine, a barnarh- or a k t nek tag out the Ihfp's blood of bar masculine partner Polygnttroa. the great Grecian artist, pa I Mod her -VX B. C. as a tour legged Ig-nst In “The Hope of Oemw." devouring all the la Ik** of her hnsband. while he works on amd weaving out iMs life wtrrk tn a rope of atoaw. Rut that to won »nf iden of the true wife. ’ The true wife -to a consumer us manVi a consmnT. hut she la

also a financial prodi producer. Like man.

maw- than toe consumes.' A* the book of Proverbs tMcturrs: “Tthe to like the mewhant fblpa; abe bitngetb her Jpod froai afar. Hhc considererh adield and bnja-th It; toHii tbe fruM of her hand# abe-plnntrdfaw. vineyard- Ifhe maketk heiaelf.coat-rings of tayaattr. her clothing to silk «*1 parple.- Mark well these wonto: -A true vrlte ‘Jwivelvetli that her Ukealiamlise to good;" not a fdoflern. nut.* femaledofl.uidt. a painted mllliiwry establishment Kpraklug <ff sta ll a wife os Ihe.tmok at IVas-erbs *Wtkt!Ih-s. It to a .faltbfnl portrait, the hdelity of which umiuy a r.ma in tbtotokurch could attoto by bis

“Ota. no.“ soya the oHtsrntlne*egotist, “wwnan Is niw. the bceadwhmsr of the family. It to tbe baibawd. saho. aa a lawyer. whutZees'in tbe courtroom; as • physictaa. ^cnina muacy XD»ai tiento; aa aisuilier. fights his country’s battkes;. aa a legislator, enach Ipwa. which the male executive enforces; be to the meridianlman. goods; he ts .the fotnsftrymaQ who manttfacture* r he steel rails. Man. man. everys'Jwe Is mas the :t»rradwInner. We DikI that man tilto the Hekla, .and twu. rales the money markets, and num.-alt* upon the Judicial bench and the profcwilonal chshto" la that a fact *ny brother? Tls true, man to the vial lie breadwinner. But when you 'are looking for tbe driving force which prodwea results in society <do not make tbe anlatake of atrppealng ghat thwe Is no power bat what.you

see.

The power hehlud tbe throne to aetnetimes greater than the throne Itself. If this be not true, bow can you acrount for the wonderful results which

marriage altar and end with tbe deaths af or the separations from their female silent partners. Who was Napoleua

Bonaparte? Tbe greatest

strategist of the ages? Yes. But aftw all you can find his wonderful success tanked by two Incidents In hla) life. They started with hi* marriage to Josephine. They ended with his divorce Had Josephine’s partnership nothing to do with Napoleon's success? Who waa William E. Gladstone? That statesman whose energy and commanding genius were the wonder of

wife had bees a source of Inspiration

, and that to have her alt-

down et him from the gallery

of the house of all his powers. Who

the great commoner? Ha also was husband of a woman his equal In perOn tbe day -of their marturned and said to ■ him. md to thy business and thy public affairs, and I will provide for

the home and relieve thee from all cares at home." And so great to the value of a true wife In relation to her lud's aocceea that nearly all great arv ready to testify to this fact end declare that tl»ey can never rniay the obligation# which their wive# have placed Upon them. 1 waa taught the obligation which a true husband owe* to a true wife some years ago by nn eastern minister whom I tonalder one of the greeteat pulpit geniuses at bis age. I waa about to be married, and waa talking with him. when he gave to me this eba meter latte advice: “Always love your wife. But more than that, always Icnni to re*pe*-t nix! follow her judgment, because abe can be your t*«#t adviser. When I waa a young man I started out with aouie suctvwa. I knew 1 could apeak, nud 1 could also write. And often when I would write aomethlng I thought very fine I would take It down to my wife and mid it. flometliaea abe would look up from hex-■owing and any. •John, don’t cay that'' With that I would throw down my manuscript and stalk up and down the room In disgust. •Why do you aay thatr I would n*k. •t*o you know bow to preach? Are you a better Judge of preaching than myself? Haven't l spent four years tu college and three years Ih the seminary? What boot ness have you to tell me what to do? You are nothing but a woman anyway.' But after a long experience I found that my wife # Judg ment could always he depended upon. When I followed her judgment I always came out right, and when l fol lowed my own against her* I always •amc out wrong. And. though I am now an old man and one of much experlrace. yet whenever I am In doubt altout anything I have ever written I always go to her. And when ahe aaya. -John, don’t say that' 1 take my pen and "cratch ont the whole page. My to doc in a great measure to my wife’s judgment and not to my I know that the world honors my father’* memory. But personally I know T. De Witt Taimage * aucceaa was due to a great extent to Susan Tntmage. wtK> was hla wife and my mother. What moat of ua •■an aay In reference to our father*’ aucceaaea we can aay In reference to our own. It to to the good advice, the loving Intuit km, the sound judgment of tbe wife, whom we have taken as a juirtner. that we owe in great measure ah that we have

gained !u Rte.

Mm buatwnda.-friends, bow are we ohig to ivpay our wtraa for aS the owcrOcM fhey have made for ns? “Oh." some husband aay*. “I do my faD tony to my wife. I provide tor her a good home. I Rive bto all the motwy abe ooeda." Yon do? Oh That to vety kind. An far a* I nra ont yam gtveyonr wife nothing tint her property- Bhe' Jnat aa you Oo. and ahe baa a right to at least one-half- of your tacone. If from a mere cOtfl blooded standpoint r*m had to Mre a beoarkaeper to do the atwh Bhe floes, yon would have to pay far more for her .wages than your wife -ever spend* for dotbes and en •ertutavumt. ’’Tbeu if that he tbe ease, and it is the aaya. *tiow am il To pay my wife unteas I pay her In money 7' Why, give her tbe same reward* the apostle has commanded in the word* of my text. Did Paul over ajieak of money La reference to the tamtband'a duty to bl* wife? No. be take* thaj for granted. He *aya. “HuSbanfla. love yonr wire*.' But that Is not all. He gives hla com mandniem to the superlative sense. “Husbands, love your wives even aa Christ alae loved the church and gave himself Cor IL" Ah. could there be any sweeter or more devoted or more Intense measure for a bnahamTa af feutloii* than thati Jt to love the true wife longs for. as 9t la love tbe true husband in the home should long for. Not money no much as lore. Intense, devoted, loyal, self sacrificing lore. Husbands, pay yonr wives for their sacrifices of life la the golden cuto of

minted love.

But there to a promtoaoiy note nected with every marriage certificate which should compel a husband to give his love to hte wife's* well as bit grati-

But there to still another and a mon far reaching reaaon why American should tore thrtr wlree. “even as Christ a too loved Uw church and gave himself for it." Sot only to tbe home, but the community and the nation, bullded upon tbe cornerstone of tbe tore which a husband should bear to bto Wife I am not stating this fact too emphatically. 1 will go further and iy tbe aalvatlon of the world Itartf to de|M‘ndrnt u|»oii that purified love. What does the Bible aay. “God artteth the Military In families." Tbe unit of society to not the man who casts as a vote tbe white slip of paper Into the ballot box. It la the man and the wo Joined together at the marriage altar aa one. If that union to not maintained In tbe spiritual sense, then there la no union, and there Is no stable com

munlty.

Why was tbe first settlement at Jamestown. Va.. a failure and the first settlement at Plymouth rock a sueccsa? Were the old pilgrim father* any braver men than the Virginia planter*? Waa not John Hiulth of as heroic mold aa Mile# Ktandtoh? The reason for the faMure of the Jamestown colony waa due to tbe fact that those southern colonizer* did not bring their wive# along with them, while the Plymouth fathers stuck to Plymouth rock because they were anchored there by tlx* Plymouth mother*. Why do men herding together as a ctoas degen erate morally, mentally and physically? Been il *e they lack the moral and spiritual leaven which cornea from noble wife’* love. Therefore, brethren. If as men yon would be true to your country, true to your city, true to your children, true to yourself and true your ObrlM you will be true to your wives. Husband*, hear ye not the farreaching commandment. “Love your

wives?''

How shall we love our wires? By giving them a few silly compliment*? Oh. no! Not that. A wife la quick to detect Insincerity In such inanities. But you can show her your respect and deference. Yon can prove to her by your pleasure In her aociety. by the little attention# that when you were a lover came naturally to you and by your preference for her over younger women that yonr heart to still in her keeping Tbe little present*, the sideratlon of her taste* and the desire to give her pleasure which used t9 characterise your treatment of her would delight her better now than ?>efore and would bring to her weary face the glad smile of tender affection. Husbands, love your wives. We should love them In making them one with os In all our thoughts and hope* and joys We should lore them so that the brightest hope of our love would be to lighten thrtr burdens and to always have them by our aides. We should love and continue to love them even as Christ lore* the church, when. IB tbe canticle*, read his beautiful blessing upon it: “Aa the Illy among the thorns. *o is my lore among the daughters. As tbe apple tree among the tree* of the woods, so to my beloved-’’ O husband, do you lore your wire as Chrtat lores church bride?

THE SUNDAY SCHOOL

a in tbs International fianaa far Ji_n* 18, 1004—Christ

rome Into many men’s Uvea at the/ dude for what shn-doca. It waa on ac-

count of this luring promise which be made to her that ate. a young girl, persuaded to leave her father's home and torn her bark upon her school friends and. like Bnth. who followed,

Naomi go with her

went and lodge with him where he lived and make his people her people and bto Uod her God. Therefore if a man who has won hla bride upon tbe promissory note of love doe* not his contract be to a swindler aa welt as as Ingrate: a deceiver, a falsifier, a perjurer. as well aa one wbdue ideas of gratitude ate as monstrous and dto- ' torted as that >of the wayward son.

nt and turn upon bto fa-

ther's Jove. - You believe a merchant la dishonest who through the bankruptcy court would repudiate a debt be could pay. Why Will you not aay a hnsband to Ashoneat- and contemptible wlx> would repudiate tb* obligation of a lifetime love, which be accepted whan be pledged himself to tha young girt by hla aide on Ala wedding day, whan

The pure, the bright, tb* beautiful. That stirred our hearts In youth. Tbe Impulse of a wordleaa prayer. The dream of love and truth. Tbe loosing* after aomethtng loot.

The spirit's yearning cry.

The strivings after better hopes— There things should never die. The memory of a clasping hand. I

The preaaure of a ktos.

And aD the trifles, sweet and frail. That make up lore’s first bltoa. It with a firm, unchanging faith

And h<Oy trust sad high.

Those hands have clasped. I hose Up*

Let nothin* pass, for every hand Hdst find some work to do; Lore not a chance to wgken leva; Be firm and just and true; Bo shall the light that cannut fade Beam or thee from on high. And anatte' voices aay to thee.

Bard to Handle Freight Trofile. SYDNEY, C. B.. June 7.—The Dominion Iron and Steel company to finding It difficult to handle traffic in tbe harbor on account of tbe general strike, number of the foremen at tb* plant were asked to unload a steamer, but, they declined. An effort waa made to’ procure men at North Sydney to unload two Teasels, Vnd thirty laborers wore engaged to come here oq^a yacht Sympathizers with tbe union beard of tbe plan and succeeded in inducing

but throe to remain away.

Chit*. Shakea t p.

LIMA, Peru, June 7. — Tacna and Aries, in Chile, were shaken byatro-

sarthquake at 133 a. m. Tbe

Inhabitants nn Into the streets In their nightclothes. Tbe walla of many build-

cracked and tbe sea agitated.

TOE LEMON TEXT. (Mark UXT-W > OOLDEN TEXT—Chrtoi died for our Bio* mdonllr.* to tb* Scripture" —i Oer

UA

OUTLINE OEBCIUPTl’RE SECTION Jeao*- Crvciflsioo Men r O-M jeoug Cruclflaxiti Mark li Zl-«l JaaiW Cruclflskn. UuhtUM-t* TIME.—Friday. Apr.; 7 A. V ». PLACE —A hill Ju»t outeld* ib* dfr of Jerusalem, called Golgotha tcClvary) NOTES AXLCOMMENTH "They bring Him unto the place Golgotha:" It waa tbe common place of execution. The exact spot I* not knowc. nor to the location of Gethiemane though both arc pointed out to-day It to possible, however, that the location just outside the city wall on tbe north to correct “The place of a skull:’’ Bo called because of 1U resemblance to a Ikull. Our word calvary it from tb* LaUp calvaria, skull “Wine mingled with myrrh:’’ Sometimes supposed to have been a drink prepared to deaden the pain of the sufferer, but neither tbe priests nor tbe executioners teem to have been anxious to spare Him pain. Compare Matt 27:34, where He tastes It and then rejects It. It had simply been another attempt to torture Him in HU Intense thlrrt by offering Him something which looked like refreshing drink not. “They crucify Him ” By nailing Him to tbe cross while It lay upon the ground and then raising it and dropping it into the socket prepared for It Crucifixion was then what hanging to to-day. the mort disgraceful death a man could die. and at the same time the moat painful Tbe enffering of tbe victim grew steadily worse til! death came not from a mortal wound- but from the maddening pain and from hunger and thirst The last hours of execution were the worst, and these, owing to His early death. Jesus waa mercifully spared “It waa the third hour:" Nine o’clock in tbe morning “The superscription of Hla accusation:" It wa* common to put a placard above the head of a crucified mar. tatlng his crime. Pilate could not resift the temptation to make the placard read so aa to hurt the pride of the Jew» all ha cctUd. On this point

read John 1>: 14-22.

In rtudytng tb*.: section compare the attitude of tie crowd, even of the Idle paasers-by. with their rldictfte and sneers, with that of the dying man upon the cross Jems spoke seven times during the ordeal. Study HU spirit from those utterance*. The first word from the cross was: “Father, forgive them: for they know not what they do" (Luke 28:24); the second: “Verily I aay unto thee. To-day shall thou be with me L\ Paradise" (Luke 23:42); tbe third*. "Woman, behold, thy son! . . . Behold. thy mother!" (John 19:27). “When the sixth hour was come:** Twelve o'clock, high noon. ‘There waa darkness over the whole land till the ninth hour:” Luke’s expression, the sun’s light failing" cannot mean an edlpee. since an eclipse at Pasroner time, that la. at full moon. Is an Impossibility The conjecture that dense iioods hid the sun is common and Is ag suitable aa any other. Whatever the cause, the evangelists saw In It a token of nature’s awe at the death of the Son of God."—Prof. Rush Rhees. “At the ninth hour: “ Three o'clock In the afternoon. The fourth word from the croffif was; "My God. my God. why hast Thou forsaken Me?” The words of Ps. 22:L It waa altogether natural that Jesus Who had lived in tbe atmosphere of the Hebrew scriptures all His life should express the feeling of desolation and loneliness which swept over HU soul In the words of the precious Psalm It was only a feeling however—a truly human cry, and Jesus did not for a moment believe that God had forsaken Him The fifth word was: T thirst" (John 11:22); The sole expression of bodily suffering.” The sixth: Tt Is finished” (John 19:20). nod the last: "Father. Into Thy hands I commend My spirit" (Luke 23:46). He knows that the Father baa not forsaken Him. And so, with His thought still for others In tbe very hour at Hla death. Jesus finished His mission and attained rest The spectacle of Hla death Impresses ns almost more than Hla life with Hla divinity, and we Instinctively worship. ‘The veil of tha temple was rent In two:" The great curtain. 20 feet long and 20 broad. ( be- ^ tureen the Holy place and ffhe Holy of Holies. "The old mystery surrounding Israel’s God had vanished; the age of types had passed; the Holy of Holies was to every believer." On the words of the centurion, reed the R. V. margin which to undoubtedly correct

Inga war* one

FULTONVILLB. N. Y., June 7.-WU-Bam Briggs, the fifteen-year-old ten of Harrison Briggs, was.drowned In the Brie canal by tbe capeixlaf at e row-

Walter Craig, who a few yean ego wee worth.nearly IM0.800. died In a

‘ » home of a

'What Must 2 Do To Become Christ’s DUrtple?" *411 b* tbe subject o' the Christian Endeavor mertiuji at tbe First Baptist Church toiaoreow evening. Mrs. Phil Dickinson will lead the meeting. Vlnoent Chapter, Kp worth League, of tha M % E Church, at ia meettog on Moo day evening next will discus* “What 1 Must Do to Become Christ-a Disciple. ’’ Walll^r*. ' /.ft MeMrad a large Invoke from A. a Glut, 418 Washington street.