Cap 3lV.il) (Ocean Have.

VOL. XII.

OA EE ISLAND. CAPE MAY COUNTY. NEW JERSEY. WEDNESDAY. NOVEMBER 14. I860.

NO. 697. ■*

ffct fort's (Cornet. . Tba to-llo-Ug *rauL»': ballad waawrlttsa by Ja—rn tanun.u IrUk K>IK w»o died In »l La aga of twenty-eight- Mr. B. wruta Bi.ny Ms beat U la tourMnglJ be«.itttul : W TO JIT WIFE. Ceme lo M, d»rfil, I'm K-afly «n III out thr* ; Mg»Mt»a ppd I » (Making about NlfhMlwc aad dsy-ttwa in droomi I beboid thci • (l.w.lcra* lh. -nklti teal •***«• to fold Use. Coai |a M, darling* of lorrowa lo lighten ! Com lo thy Ereuty lo M*o« and totetghtei. ; " ' CanM la thy lovallaaaa, u'uaenty ond koly. swallows will 111 reuad Iki touts'* nil*, rem e# raw owl M* J-ro« roeewln* : And fhodgkts of (kg love and Its wnoltold trea- * AM stfaBfc asy heart with a prow Us of pleasure (%wkii<>ir«<idi> ok.M-yof eiym-on,; ■kino ool la my nptrtl llll II bowrgeoe ood No*- . for i Th# put el ■» "fo Boo * ioomooI wllkln it. Aad Iky toadara at*** u th# sushis# lo win IIMgasra Unla w* Uk**«oa« through the aeee - Tas lures Ut up by * re«*» of heaven— . — . ■ran Ilk# Iko ok Ion of Phi Crta oar mothev. «bm Hill i nod feebler in ehestng each h«h or. lalln eooilog seldom. bol chltollhe and aimple, Opwalag thetr «y#a trow Ik# hood of a dlwpl* , Oh. Ihaaka lo iko Sevtourt Ikal avoo iky *nn«• lag la l#ft to Ike axUr lo brighten hU diesmlng m haw# haan (lad whaa you know I waa (lad Aa octavr to uc»av« and rkywraalo rhyme, tor*. ; I aaaaot waapt bat your t.ara will ka lowing ; Von cannot laflt. but iky rhaak n HI b# (Ionia* I ( ovoid ant Ola wllkoat yoa al »y aid#, lorr. Voa will not lln(ar whaa I akall karadlcd.lora. Com lo a*, dear, arc I dla of ay aoircw. strong, awlft, and fond aa Iba worda wblck 1 j •peak. Iota - ■ With a aong Ca your Hp* aad a amlla on yoiu rhaak, Iota. Coma, (or ay kanrl in your abaanca la woary, | Haata, far ay apt ill la alokraad aad dreary Coma to tka karri chick la throbbing to press , " ^at^tojba^anaajka^woul^foiid ly carta# thak | ^ftistellaneous. WHAT THE SEA CA»E I P. j Tbo whaler Mammae are rrrlhrtR aluti| on tar way lo Cap* Mora lo tba l'nciti. ocean. It on blowing a gala, aad lh< ••• waa bsgvy, looting tbc old gbip bllbei and IbiUer, and causing bar boll lo ring loudly al every roll and plunge. Tbi waUb ware gaibared all nnder tbc roand baaaa, owl af iba way of Iba Mi' wbieh arara conUaaolly deluging tba decks for ward. Wkeauvtr om of tba ran b id or., stria* to go lute tbw feraeaaila. be voalo (Mtri bitcbaooo— Ibat ir. bo would wail -Li.. . .' 9*H rite •lllP "" mound a poo tba craii of a lofty aaa, and tbaa raab rorward a> Ik.. . |i* lib dapaadad on .hto Speed. in ordar ti. aTwid iba aeil vara Ibat raata rolling anc Uundeiiug nla»| to, •» eep tba waatboi ' rail. Facia* tba Windward aid# of lb q natter dock, with big bnnda ic hi. pocknU, tbealnrdy akippar now aad than would dirndl aa aanaaa glaaoa alaft at hid qaiv ariag Mailt, which, with nmry plonga ol tba 'aaaa I leobad as If I bay w.tw a boat lo ga by tba board. Mr. Bart. ll.a aiata, •b". walked qa thoolb.r aid. of tbo dock, , WBO w at now qa inn ulnar iiua ot taa ones,

•aa a tall, raw-bonad man, with laak jaws, projecting laalb, aad a akin wblck waa u' tba kad of tba Heiteetot- A mora disegraaabl# Braking Individual oarer agisted; nod yet snide a'f Ua foramoat bands, who belonged In Ik a .ataa Iowa in ahicb k> Brad, when at.kama, ware ofira kaard to apeak of Ban # baaanfai wife, wbe was dnvwtetiJy at looked to bar kMkoad. •lowly peeing tba deck, aa radt toned, Ibid o rider, ob seeing M glnnrn olaft, no riaad thai ibw maintop gallant anil . ... partly Mowa from tba tnra. uf lb* gasket, acoordlhgly kt luratd » award tba group ^ af rasa nmJer-lk# rwutd-house, and ordrr od aaa I bam to ga aloft gbd arrange tba anil. Tba man r prang toward tbo rigging to wbay, aad bad already awnag bints. !i rata iba kbroada. wban Bart railed bin. back. •Oa aaaoad IbragbK". aoid b», "Pit ga ayaaif. Ikaeaat bad nay good agar *3* *'» >>• • *M«l "Matter Idaae yoar raby dllbtaa, tbaa, criod tba captain, lUyfaUj, aad ba peiai. ad taward . baas tils', ring, which earlaini, ( looked oat of plsra oa o«b of tba ctuokad j Ua wool J not bar. parta^ w,ib thai | ^■ini^if*' ** " "" 'sift b'- j Tba Ibrilliag qry af "Mag orarbeord " ' bad aot rang Mm* tbroagh tbo reral. gdaddMw TboM^^MfllS™ i :

This wsl s "j r»y fill right" lo Ik* csp- i tain r-for bo ibasght otsrh of his fim o® j . cer, »bo, tbongb ba was a man of grafl t ' lampar, waa aa aicallaat asilor. aad oa* ' i 1 of lb* b-sl whalraaian out of Now Bad- ! I ford. ! i Kncoaragad by Iba cbeory aoiea of iba , ■Llppor, who, BOW laogbing and tabbing | . bia haada. orgad bis man to "poll akrsd I , wiih a will," tb* tailors laid back to tb-ir , oars, pulling lock powerful ilrokn Ibsi , ' iba bout waa luoa nilbin n few fstbuma ul : , tb* brat officer. A mamaot lalar ihoesp- j lain, boondhig forward, lennad orar tbr ( head of lha little foiiel lo griap Iba swim- ■ mar'* arm ; bnl just aa ba was os lbs poial , uf ssising It, tba mala, with a ilraoge, , wild cry, disappeared from bia aigki ! j ta if * poll-be sad, tbo crew sat for eom. , momaDta atariag al each olbar, aad on- , " able 10 uttar a word. In rain they wailed- } hoping tbal Bart would aooa reappear— ( bn nertr rooa ngain; and with hnaty bnarD 1 tb* crew returned lo tba ibip Inmauliug tb* fato of no officer who hnd won ll^o ren- • pect If not tb* lore ol nil hnada. ( Tb# Moood mata, bowoaar, an tb* only . aino who bud rkod t*ara orar tb* aalae- j - rholy affair; bat tht aocoad aiata war , something of a bypocnta, and bia skip- ( oatai. on* aid all, boliaatd that bia grief , waa falgard ; ibat ka was oily too glad to ( "•tap iato lb* ihosi" of tb* Brat officer. - ( ' lo aa to "lord it"oa*r Iba furemaal bandi, ; ( who bad woaoded bin diguily.by bailow . lag upon him Ihe toubriqual of "Whole 1 ( Tosset," b* baring boaiied wbil* iotoxl- j f caled, that la cnnld loss a abalt on bia f ' About t week nfier Iba incident! ilea. 1 crlbod, tba Mrrrimar arri'ed in lb* Fnci- ' . Bo ocean. On# morning, while oaa of tb* tnta wy flabing wiib a book sod line, bo : ' obaarr'd a cariona-looking Bib awimmiag j 1 •oar tba bows. It waa aboot lis foat long, ' rery broad, aod abapod lika a eat B a.— ! ; Tb* atlaolioa of all hands being diraclad ' • | to Ibis aingular cremare. lbs sea mat* i I atatad that It waa a rpociaa of Bab whith ' ! he-bad often satn off Cap* Horn, am ahicb was laid lo ba ai ravenous an a i shark. ' Una of tba boat-ataorera sprang upor | iba bow armed with a harpoon, which ba ' ! dartad through tba craature'a body. Ii ; waa than baulad oa dack. whare, aftai j atrcggliag awhile, II died \t liking to ' ; d.aeect tb* corioaa "animal," ih* captain . | procured bia kaifa aad eat It open. While : 1 parauiag his iaeattigation, however, l.e raw aomalbing ablck glltUaad among ihr 1 lied lo diaco'ar Ibat it waa iba ring, the ideniical ruby which Bart bad worn aod : 1 i prised .o highly aa tbo gtfl of bia wile ! Wa kaaa bnl lltlla mora lo add. Tbe ' ring was Seat bona to Mrs. Bart la a lei- ! I Ur cootaiaiog aa arrnnnt of iba melan- j i i cboly lacidanl wa baa* daaeribad. Tba ' • beaalifal woman aarar rtcararad from tba : 1 . aback of neb faarfol aawa. Sbadird three i i rnoaika after ah* received th» latter. 1 A Tammy iptweh! jsj Tb* Wisconsin iMgislatnrs hare for ' matly eonridarod a preposition to aholial all laws for tba cullaction of dabi. '1 SS mosar of tb* bill, Mr. Elmora, is a great . wag, aa la arlaoed by lha followiag ex ' iracl from hit speech on thai subject : — I ' ' » The speaker proceed. d lo rariew tbr j ' preseol system of eottecliog debts. J. j 1 was all a bsmbug aad a cheat, a malter ol i ' lochaioalilies and legal skeffiing. Us. J 1 jars gam ad rice in order to obtain a fee j 1 1 aad eoeoarage litigation. Judges jaade ' 1 ' blsBdta aad mistake*. Ha bad bntliul, :

• experience In Uw, cod tint was r.cb, 1 [iMSgbter.j Me wee Id give a history o: ' it. The spaaker lbso related bow hs bad ; purchased a yoke of ogee, aboat BlUei. | ' years ago— paiu fifty dollars for them— a | ' law days aftar, tbo aoa of lb* man ol ' whom ba bought the oxen, cam* I* him " and said the oxen war* his. II* instated aa baring pay orar again, aad commanced ■ soil before a jastiee. l bs jury dida*. agree. Kiaally, tbroagb tbo Mender* ol ' tbo Baakwood jaatic* of lb* pose*, lb* • mm want against him. Ho appeaUd it to 1 ' tbe Circuit Court io Milwaukee. "There,- ' said ho "I teas again, and said lo my law- 1 ' «ar : I'll gim yon tea dollars to quot. . 1 I'annsj Irani# law to Jadg* Miliar, aad 1 have a sew trial ordered. | Ureal Laagb- ' tor,] U* look loa dollars and performed ! tba daty. > A new trial waa tbda graotad, aad ! • rant# chaagod U Walworth coaaty i 1 Jodga Hma waa Ua jadg* Any man | who « sated to gala a cauaa IB bia coon. I • had aithar to go haaiiqg with him aad lot - tba Jadga claim ail tbe gam* tbal was I < sbat, or *Va pat bia dog. Well, I patted i lka dog. [Uagbltr.] ] hi tb* dog i with cracker*} [Ret* wed laughter, j The j o**t was decided in wry fcear. .Whaa I [ I i heard Ua daeUioa 1 Uoagbt to myMlf ■ Ua dog had followed ma aboM Wag ! tatiod amoad aod gam htm n ' aay- "Mr. Clash, this jsjgama.t la eat ! ' arid* aad aaaw trial gtaaiad." [Oraai . laughter. ] Mr. Sjm^, that tack Boat •a g»0 [Cms, trie* k-ghwr.} Im bare a* doabt wmo a aril » a jastlM-. ■ ooart ia lha con a try There ta liwa apral ■ W.iaga aod llm.MJus* aaaaad by it. It •a all w ahawr. TW IMgaaU bad baiter r*' .'.

four talilp aa It Should Be. i Uhoosiag a w'ir. is -no aueh poxtling j I enigma ma it aaed lo be, before lights of r j modern aciaae# shone acres# lha oins- | I teeath century of our*. If yea marry an i j aagel and discover afterward ibal she ii i , something mry far rumored from lb* su I I pernatoial. you b»r» only yourielf lo t thank foi it. You may ham read the dor- s man! existence of those rery repellent i raiu of character which broke upon you t lik* thunderbolts, in conformation *f the s pretty bead. Ik* akap* of tb* polished I forehead, the car*# of tha stately oeck. < You may hare •••• lha Baab of temper in s her eye*, U* acerbity of faer close lipa, ) the iron will of lh* square cbio. Kater* ' inscribes her character plainly eoougb in ' the face aad brain, aad if you take net the « Irvabl* to read the sigos and tokens, aby < yod ham only to msks lh# best of the bar- ' Nor do w# believe in long courtship*. ' Jacob mast bur* been u most romurkuble 1 indiridsul not to hum got heurttly tired • of Mi*s Hoc hoi long before Woe* fourteen ' years' orJeel bad transpired, and w* hare 1 no proof* tbal Rachel *•• ool waning into ' a confirmed old maid while Jacob was 1 •araiog har. Poa'l wait to muk* your ' yonag lover ! If you ure ool rich •oeugb io money, yon ham stores if ' | strength aad yoalb, and warm fresh love; 1 j tod with these gone you would b* poor 1 indeed, though yqn re'eled in tbu wealth ' | of William B. Aslor. A man never f.lls j I io lot* but *oe*. Hs bus bis fancies, lik- 1 fiisadshipa.baied on gsnoios astsem. ; the celestial fiame cornea only ouce in ' j a lifetime. Therefore, if you lot# a woman aad she ta worthy yeur affection, i j marry ber, and treat to Ood aod your own I ; ilroag right arm to bring tha world lo ! recognize tb* wisdom of yoar choice. As for all tha correnl nonsense about ! selectieg a wife, our shrewd opinion is that it ia only nonsense Faocy a yeung gentleman prying into bis inamorata's bourn before breakfast to ascartaio whetbrr or not ber collar is pinned correctly or her hair brushed geometrically straight. Picture him descending upon all sorts of cettain sad uncertain baurt to Bud out j whether the hat made bread or playad the [ | pheoo, and if there b# any dnsl on bar ' I centre-table. If he baa not jndgment ; moogh to make bia aaleclion without any : such rxtraoaoun aids, ws opine that bit | j intollect cao scarcaty be of tbe very bigb- , est order. Yet there are some keen disappointments ia Ibis basiueaa of matrimonial , choice. A man matrial a pretty girl an. ' der a tort' of transitory enchantment, ia very apt when Ihr bnnrymoon is over, to ; discover that sha Js ooly mortal after all, i and ct>,yidrrs himself relber in lha light ! of a wronged individual. Tbo pretty girl bogies lo s#« that b*r lovsr is nsithsr I more or Ims than a om ; it is possible : ■ bat abs baa ksr moments of greet raflec | , lioa oa the aohj.cl. Thai it requires a | coosiderublt amount of phil0S'<pb) tb sur- ; i vivo lb* first maatbl of malnaMioy with- : oot ahst are railed "lovwrs' quarrels."— j Yet there Is |om enough aad broad eoougb ' and deep euoegh lo b*ar«p all ImperfrC- ! j twos and shortcomings ou its restless car j | real. Now aad then ws cbsnce ou a mar- ' riega based ua joal such lore aa Ibia. a union wbos* linka brigbleu at Ua years 1 ' go oa, aod are etmsnted more strongly (o , tba world "qbsrs there is aeilber mar- i | riag* aor giving ia marriagr." ], I While there are rammer and wiaUr, ; wan* were are leaner nnu winter,

I saed lime and hatvest, there will be a per I ' , price! repetition of lha ewewt old store ul | ' ; love aad coartahlp. It it as it should be. 1 i Let there ba no t*W* modesty, ao mis. | placed hesitation oa tba subject. Uod '' . meant bis children to be happy in tha 1 ■pit -grim* uf their lit* ; akall we hide 1 awey tb* good gifl# of lev* aad epprecia- ' lioo which bp baa givan as t. Jndgimg Character by Ihe Color I of a Petticoat. Tb* fallowing ia from tbo pan of a man i who "loved not wisely, bat loo trail," aod | got married : I Tb* w*y to jadg* of a woman's charac- I ! tor, at firat eight, ii to asMriain tb* color | of bar palticoat. A black petticoat iadi- j 1 , calts lew spirits, a hatred of wasbiabt •nj activity, aad a taste for dypoplie Ut- | I ere to re tad quietude. A lady u ho wears e black paltiooat, coold no more read and j tinders laid this paragraph than she eoold ! swim tb* A I ho Up. ' A whit# petticoat shows a cbaraeiar j jaat Ik* #ppo.il*4-M unsullied mind end J | a taste far romaae* A tcmaa who takes j aatarally to whit# petticoats and M»*r j I wears any otbar, is aa laslilatjoo t which ; 1 gentle irao or conoubta) proclivities should ' 1 r | oa so timoia poyiagdM atteatioa. l! Tbo red parvoaat. however, is NM- ; | thing of which mankind should beware ; | [\ ii is tha iBStgate of Z«Mippae-a style of ! I ; | ha sin. who nut itetr teo-tails with thetr I . i 'll"*lllfr' **■ j | i -A asilor being asked bow ka liked ! ' b m bride, ia reported to bar* remarked: | 1 "Wby.d'yaaM, I took bar facto keenly i I ' buJf of me, aa tba paraan e ys; bat dak , m* ifsba Mi l Misru a>-.cb aa 1. I'arl , oaly a Tar. aad she a a Tar tar ' ; -Tb. %i»d tmdy -bo mat qa srae. . '

A Ilappy Man. A xealous divine, who had prayed ear- j I neetly that Ood would teach him the per- ! i way of tretb. wa* directed ta go to j ' certain place, where he would Bad on j When he eem# to th* place. ; i foucd a man ia ordiaary attire, lo whom j ' wished a good morning. "I niter had ; I bad morning." replied th# men. "Tbal eery eiagol.r; I wish ton may alwaya | so fortunate." "I was nater unfortno. I ate," said be. "I hop# you will always \ so bappy," raid lbs divine. "I *m I tfnhappy." said lha other, "I wish,'' i said thaTfvioc. "that you would explain i yourself a little." "That I will chrar- i fully do," said ho. "I said that I oarer t a bad moraiog ; for ovary morning, if 1 am piachad with huogar, I praise Ood. If it rains or .snows, or hails, wbaiher tb* wratbrr is serais or lempostioos I am null thankful to Uod, sod therefore never have a juyloaa mornfog. If 1 am despieed, still I praisa Uod. Yoa wish that I might always be fortuaale, bot I befaie me but according to the will of Uod; and I belies* tbal bis will is always good, in whatever he does or permits to be done. You wished me always bsppy ; but I cannot be unhappy, because my will la always resigaed to lb« -ill of Uod. "Bot what if Uod should thrust yoa down Is bell 7" which 1 would bold on to my Uod nod Saviour, and not let him go ; acJ I would rather be io hell with Uod than m Heaven j I wi'bout bliu." Tbw divine, astonished at j the man # aaswers.-rasked bim whence h* | I came. T cam* from Ood," be replied, j | " Where did yoa Bnd.Ood?" "Where Ij left tbe world." "Where did yea leave j him T" "With tb* pare la heart. "— | "What are yon!" "I am a king." J "Where is yoar kingdom ?" "It is with- ! i ia my own bosom. I have learned to rule , I my appetites and passions, and thai is ! bollir lhao to ru|« any kingdom in the | world." "How were yoa brought into ibia happy condition 7" "By secret , prayer, spiritual mrditalioa, and union | with God. Nothing below Uod coalo j ratitfy my desire*. ' 1 have foand htm. 1 and to bim I Bod peace sod rest.' A Secret for being Happy. An Italian bishop, abo had struggled through maty difficulties without repin- > ing, and been tnnch opposed without man. ifettiog impatience, being asked by a i being always so happy, replied: " It cou- - sists ia a single thing, uod that is, mtkiDg 'aright as* of my ays*.' His friend, in I surprise, begged him lo explaio bis mean- ( "Moat willingly." replied tbo bishop. | "In wbataoossr state I am, I first of all look up to btavos, and ramsmbor that my j great business is lo get there, I then ' look down upon earth, and call lo mind | bow small a space I shall saon fill in it. I than look. abrMd in lbs world and see what multitudes ire, in all rsspscts, less | bappy than myself. And thus I learr. where true happiuess is placed, where ell { 1 ever had to murmur, or to b* otherwise 1 than thankful. And to lire in this spirit i j is to be alsrays happy." — Il'utcr CW« | i Journal. ■ ' - Wife Veraus Lad). . It Is owi'latnly not ia good taste for a gentleman to spaak or bis air* sis bis ' lady, or lo register their names upon tb*

books of th# hotel aa "Jebo Smith aad j lady!" This is all fashionable vulgarity, and invariably batrays a lack of ealtire. lioa. Tka term wife is far more boautifol aad appropriate aad reflaad, whatever, may b* said to tbe coatrary. Suppose a lady wore ta aay. instead pf "my husband," "my gaatlamaa," or anppoaa we were to apoak of "Mrs. Fits Maurice aad her gentleman." Tba thing would ;b* . positively ludicrous, aad IU obverse ia none tb* Iom so, ir rightly eoasidarad. A , man's wife ia bia wifa, and not bia lady. Wa marvel that this latur term it aot utterly kaboood, in such a coaasotiou, at ' Mggducated and intelligent paopi*. i It okgbt to be left for the exclusive use , of the codfish aristocracy. | Scxaca Aancuu. — lindrr tha hsadiog 1 of scare* articles, may b* encmerated, a ' who practises all ba profssaaa ; a ' beauty that sever full proud whao aba ' dresses ; a lawyer who boueatly plaada for 1 his client ; a braggat whose couraga is 1 always defiant ; a Masible dandy, aa actaal friand ; Pbllaathropy, publishing ' "money to land ; a skHful physician ra- ' i gardlasa OfMlf; a staunch politic.n fori gatfal af palf; a sour old lachalor easily ' ' arreyad, aad last, though apt Isast.acbaar- ' i fal old maid. 1 i — Rojasea pot wbea tbia# saamy ML , | lath ; aad lot aot tby heart ba glad whaa , ! account af bia wife rawing away, said: | "Don't pity too till aha s.rasbaak again." i - If yoar riaur. w»Bn awagsd with . sweethaart, aaks you ta baiag a giaw , ' af Water from aa acjoaiag smb. atMl oa , Yoa wjlj ppt be mtmui. fia't forget , lit*. Ittli* boye, ., - Wban Bqaabblee' wdb kicked kirn j oat of bad, ka aaly rimaiAad "S*o ber* , I Boa! yaw hMBar aot datbatagoia If yoa I

A Word for New Jertej . J Ia an old copy uf tb» i'tiiUdelphla .Vetrn J wa find acorreaponilenrr fruin Selem. from I ; which w* are tempted to meke tb* follow- j ! ing oxtract. After alioding to the agri- { ! cultural resource* of lb* Slat* in glowiog j ! terms, tb* writer thai eloqornlty picture* j | other merits and glories : But New Jersey has something more j | tbaa fertile lands of ahicb to boast. She —of smoking bamle > and sanguinary fields, unequalled by any othrr Slat* of tba Confederacy ; and when har sons heur the gibes aod sneers heaped apon her by a eoscaited anti-American population of member Traatoa, Princeton, Monmouth, Red Bak, Aaaaopiok aod Springfield, aod pity tb* ignorance, or despise th* iagrai tilude of those who would mar lh* caakrt containing such jewels There is scarcely but has its Revolutionary history. Now Jersey chorisbes the sertieca of her Frt. linghuyseus. Dickinson#, Daytoas, Liv- : tngatooa, and olhnre ; hut sh* cap also aay i to tha Uaion, I gave you Morgun. whore rifles reddeneJ more British jackets than any other corps in our eorvice She can point to Lawronce. proetrat* upon tba 1 —"Never to give up the ship !" To Baini I sent tha Java to th* (oral cases of old j I Seed his life lo rescue our ting from bari . barren to-uli. To Elko, tbe cktvalric ' commander, who foil belore York in tbe • | arme of victory. To Krarnry, th* peer- ' lees dragoon, ubo. with Stockton, added , j to oar Confederacy, a naw Empire ou the | ' I Pacific ; and others, of deatblria aaoir. ; ■ which tha aatioo cannot afford to have j •trickeo from her aansla. We show you ^ : our sand at Cape May. (pot ultugetbor ; kills. Aye, iTrre IS iron loo. that s.mr • which was forged into guns and hulls ausy ' among the mountains of Morris county 1 during tha darkest period ot Ihe Itevolu,t* aad Um. stun, in our hill., and pearl, j | io our brooks ! * Wp hsve colleges. Normil School, Lunatic A»yluto, ('eatteniia- [ ' garded as models for the world. We hart [ a geoial climate, and a gaograpbtcal post- ! j Union Our towns are rapidly oatatrip- | ping yours lo six# aud importance. The . manufactures of Pataraon, Newark, Tn-n- : J j too, aod other cities, are tough! for by i i all lha civilised nations. Our horsss fur ' 1 speed, have act the fashion of tbs World, I j and our Jaraay Comgiodore. on board tLe I .yacht America, canted th* British ensign | to drop ia Ih# presence of Britain's sov. j j ertiga. Thoasasdt of the wtallhioel farn- . ilisi aaaually flock to lit shore at Cope ' May, Long Branch, aad lha many other • t seaside resorts, io pursuit of health and j pleasure, Many of the principal mer- ' upon thousands of lh* most eutarprising ' citizens of New York and Philadelphia ! ' are of New Jersey birtb. We have the | old Revolutionary stock for our populn- ' lioa, wblch has never, tu any emargency j proved recreant to tbo Uuitic. fiuch, briefly, ia New Jsreey. Her posiliou is » at lbs outpost. The Atlantic breakers • which lava bar ahoraa are ool mora surely ' cast back than would ba the foreign fo*

who there soaks a lauding. Such is our gallant little Slate. Wa all know aud appreciate her worth, aud can afford to tolerate tha idle jaere of those who kaow ; . not what tbay aay." Voices ot the Sea. ' Soma pooplo, living oo tba shore, listen to tbo distant moan of tb* vaUra aa tbay roll aad roll away; tamo are ao naod by I tag eastern, that tb*y scarcely b**d tb* aad ochoiag. Bat otbara are Dtvar aeenslomed. Oaa wonaa hot told m* that for years after sh* csrm* to live in her hosband's house by tbtMa, tba consciousness of'ita moan never left ber. Sha never could grow uud to it. It haunted bar in alaap, in bar talk, ia bar daily occupa. lions. Sha tkongbt al ona tint she should go oiad if th* aouod did aot cease^ it would go away into tha distance, and then coma rolling nearer aad loudar, wiib pasaionata sobs aod aaddan moans— and tba wild, startling, discordant cries of tb* walar-birda. Sh* had a foolish snperatitioa that stis should b* happy wbaa aba ceased to bear tha moan* af tbo sea. What it Ibis strung* voica of Nature that with oaa uttaraoc* ao maay unlike tbiagaf la it that- w* oaly hear lha voice of oar owb hearts lo tb* soaad of tbr waves, ia Ua aad criaa of tba birds m they fly, of animals, tha shivering of trees, tha creak tag aad sbarliag of Lha daily familiar things all ahawl thair bom a.' TagTaraToSvraT.— Aad at all avaau, whatever Ua* yoa take, lit it b# that wbaa yoar body aad miod are moat v|g. areas, and yaa can soarsbal to their work all yoar face 1 lie*. Oaa hoar whaa the brain ia ctear. aad th* adya af tha Intel Wet kewa. h worth bail a dute-a baa s o j sluggitb aad aioapy famhliag orar your j booh*. Whoa yoa tad yaaonlf ia tha j condition, k sales ialn -lha *f*n air, and In* tha fran winda af h*av*o driyatpa lha fBfMt that bava gatbanad *vwr yww boaia. !

I'ratac tour Wife. I Praia* your wife, man ; for pity's sake, i give ber a little *ocourag*m*ot ; it won't , • | hurt har. Sh* bas mad* your bom* com- | fortable, your hearth bright and abiuiog, | | your food agreeable ; for pity'* sak* tell j ' • ; her you thank h*r, if nothing more. Sh* ' ; dot't export it; It will mak* ber »y*v ® 1 year* ; unl it a..l do ber gi.od for *11 that ( r for the word of praise, the language of on- | couragemeot. ibr u.h summer's heat; r complsiniDgly, and so accustomed trace 1 thair rathars, brothers and husbaads ba- \ ' I tbay look for, aod upoa them a# they do | . tbe daily riaiag son and it* daily going i down. Homely, every-day lira may be J r beautified by ao appreoiatioo of Us very ^ take front yoar drawer a clean skirl •ban. ' i know list if tha floor is fleao, arenas] | i labor baa been performed to make it so. i Everything that pleases lh* eye and lha i sense, bas baaa produced by constant i work, much thought, great ear* and u»- . tiring effort!, bodily uud mentally. It ia oot tbal many men du not appro- , I ' eiate these things, end feel aglow it grail- | , stoned upon them in sickaoaa und I. | ' health, bol tbay ur in tgpt r„l- j , . ing. They don't come out with a hearty | , "Why. how pleasant you make th.ng- . I ; iook, wife!" or "1 am ubltged lo you for . , ■ taking to much paint." Ttiey tliauk ; i averybody and everything out of door*, ! , j 1 beck and tbetr heel, up, pull nut the news- . r , or. if everything it juat light, shut then 1 tell yen otrai. men, young nail obi. ; if you dot hut abow „n ordinary ...in y j . keeping, your Wive. ; if yon gave tbe ana | . to speak of tbetr fault* bowavsr banter- | i 1 logly. before other#, fewar women would | . seek for olhar sourcas o( bappiuess than I > ! your cold so-to-ish affection Pratt* your i - wife. then, for nil tbe good qualities ah* , baa, and you may real atsuied th-l her . deficiencies are fully eouulerbaluBCeo by ; I j J°ur °""- Table Nuunrrs f | To meet ut the breukfatt lab!-, father. ' D oictLer. children, i.ll well, ought to t>« a , happioses to any heart ; it should be a : - source of bumble gratilede. und abuuld 1 „ ■ wake op the warmest 'eelings of our ua- j j j low-bred cur. whether parent or child, thai ■ . ! can over cm* to th* breakfast table, j , | where all the family have met ia health, | aod whide, and growl a»u ! „ fret ; it It prtmo facit evidence of a meau „ I and groveling and selfish and degraded j sprung. Nor ta it lesa reprehensible to _ make such axuiblttoaa al tba tea-table; , for before tbo moraiog comes, torn* of the , little circle may ba stricken down with j y some deadly disease, to gather around | „ that table aot again forever ! Children to -nod haallh ir lMft In Ih-nisatva, at I h. I r good boaUbfif .at lh- |

4 table become after a few moathfuls, ger. „ ruloas aid noisy ; bot If witbin at all , a | reasonable or bearable booads, it is b. tlci j | to let them alone ; they eat leas, because j I they don't aat ao rapidly as if compelled to keep silent, while the very exhileratiuu . n of a'pirita quickens tb# citculatioo of tbvital flnlda, and energies of digestion and j •stimulation. Thu extremes s! society ; > curiously meal io Ibia regard. Th* Ja- j bits of tb* ticb end lb* tobies of England f art models of mirth, wit aad bonhemme ; _ it takea hoore' to get through a repast „ sod tbey live long. If anybody will look . in upon tb* negroes of a well-to-do fam n ily in Kantucky, while at tbeir meals, th«y cannot but be impreasod with the perfect . „ abandon of jabber cacbiualioo aad mirth . . it seems aa if they could talk all day ; sou ^ they lira long. It follows, then, thai at 1 lbs family labia all should ma*t and do ft j habilBsily, to mak* a common enter. , cbaag* of high bred courtesies, of warm . affections, of cheering mirthfolness, and i generality of nature which lifts at above lha brntaa whith peritb, promotive a. t these things are of good digoation, high - health aad a long life. — llnL'i Journal nj , HtaUk. — A late oamber of tha London .likef <tau»t, ia reviewing a work on uetaAtl his. ' riirj, giv-a B list of lha different term which ore properly applied to Bocks o| Various kinds of winged gums— a blsudei 1b whith wonld at once settle cue's char. , actor m a sportsman. 1'kss oaa uu«hi t to ray: A bmod of groose, a bevy of 1 . quails, a covey of palridges, t dropping • k of sbaldruke, a flight of wucdeorks, a • **»»!• of gees* (when tboy are ut ra#L) • eksia of gee.*, (wheo tbey Bra oa tba ' i "trig), i herd of awea, a aid of pheasants, { r a spring of teal, a suga of hareaa, a team 1 of wild dacka, a trip af dotturals, a wing d J of p ha ears, aad a wisp of saipe*. ( s -Twa tbauflteff ABriMlH baOsBfB Ml I h® U airap Nnfiti.

A'IRICIXTIHAL. F A1TRNINO SWANK. \ Maay larmart da aot coaimaaea "telasi-- . I log thair (Win* Ull October This to aat J tbs best system of bog maoagemoot — : Hugs that are to b* slaughtered aboat ' tba Grst of oaxl December or Jaaaary, shuuld be well fed, with scrapaloaa reg*. larity, throe lin-a* **ery day. It is aot to "stuff", fattening switi* In tb* for. ' mer pari of tka season, unless they hafa- ; attained a desirable sis*. Hoge shoald be k»pl growing rather tbaa o rdlaw tbsai j to tulisist almost entirely oa grate, UU I with'o two months of tb* time whaa tbay l are to ba slaughtered, aad tbaa arewd 1 them by heavy feediag. Tka qqaaU^ a t for d should be increased frwoi weak Ms week, as tha animals will lake a iaSfte amount. h urtaermore. H if ilHIWy halter lo huvu all kiada of grata X round j quite Hue before it is fsd oat. It is also j escelleut practice wkec feediag hUaalug same, to -provide three vessels, each now lo cootsin about as much as it fed St one tims. Thtu 1st the mssl ba softaaod by soaking ia water about twoaty-laar hours before it h fed. A still bstisr praolice is to scald meal of all ktodf prerioas to feeding it.— Af. I". 7tnss. KATTKNINU CATTLE. John Johnstos wrote to tb* Country Htntlrman, that ba feeds bia caltls oo all : tire bay tbay will est, with fopr quarts J each of core meal, aod oil ratal, daily, is. j creasing iach to sis quarts oo tb* third I month ; "to three months I make them ; if not ex'ra beef ; I litter tpy yards ' well, an J stable them D* longer than It , lakes them lo eat their meals, us tbey 4* ! cltion. Cattle bought that hud been ; mealed. I give more. If stabled giv# plenty of air to front i tbi* is important. 1 it is iniportusl to huvu the right kisd; Shorthorn und Hereford grades or* bost. cuttle, get them deep ut the flanks und wide across .he lotos, with good potolt ; four veers. Il'oere ur# so fsw U-re.ords ' t they tr's oot wotqh writing about. , | HOW TO KftEP EGOS, As. . I Tb* following is ths conclusion of as . article from our Sailor correspondent : Bot going in stays on the port tuck, 1 > ; want to tali yoa of my latest rag obssrvntiou trade difricg my lust fuar months' The week before going to tun I gathered io ft) joten at eggs for cnbin sea-s.orea, i eking especial pay), to pro*# every egg from my farmer friends, and koew ihoy > were all frr.b laid. Then I fixed thorn for , 1 keeping, by taking fi.e or u:x duxeu ot a i ! time ill u uu»ket um1 dipping, them for I > about five seconds into tka cook's "cop- . per" ol boiling water. After scalding, 1 1 ' passed tbe eggs throegh a bath mads by i dissolving ubjul fi vs pounds of tbs cbrapest nrown sogur io a galloo of water, aud . Lid there out on lha gull-}' floor to dry. i There I hud my sixty daxsa egg* sugar i I picked them in charcoal dost instead , of salt— 1 tried salt trnyaars, and I don't i j believe it prsssrvss sggt a mile. It sruald ; | perhaps, if ws were lo chawder them all , up ia salt. But just stoaiug tk* staff 1 | srousd ths shells — "loll that to tha as i | rinse; sailors woal believe l." , Tbs stsaard bad strict orders to bring , aft and report otery bad egg he should i find. Dariag tb* toyage, b* brought

three — not absolutely apoiied ; bot a litj ilc old like. AH tbe others, or what was 1st t of them were as fresh whto we cama into tha Capes, the other day, as thsy were when 1 packed them twty ou Saw Year's d*}. I made a discovery— new lo m* bow- , ever. Ptrbsps it may bo to others — poosibly worth sometbiug. Quitn sobef Ever tisce ps . began to have fancy fowls sod buff oggv, 1 bad noticed that tbs Bret to tail war* tb* oew color, sod finally tbst where no egg was spoiled, tka yolk bad settled through the slbumas, ' and, sdk-red lo tbs shell. Bo ou/lblt 1 voyage, I have been *Xporim*oiing7 Tba result is. 1 have found tbs density aj tha albuinto in tba wbita sbellad egg always considerable greater than ID Ur buff 00M, whilugh* specific gravity of tb* yolk waa . several per cent. less. Ho U* conclusion " was, aad is, that tha yolk of a ysllow egg •stiles so* oss t through Us aMOahas. comes in contest wiU tb* (bull, aad awosequsntly the air, sod ths buff egg soooaat spoils. — Country Goal. person a l Supervision. Attend ever) day to yoar stock and crept, lilsusad is lLat,lsrui-r who uiteadi to his stock tad twi that i hair every waat ■ ■ rrgulsrlj seppltsd. No ou# oaa do Ula •iks the farmer. Welch Uem siossly, ■ ad yoa will b* sarprtsad how mach more intarwat yaa will tabs ia tkam yoareelf. ■ou yoar area will dansa a-w assrtwaa from yuer preteucs io th* bum aad ia ■soar asndews. Woo* ran War liars.— Look alter ywar uiplsmvuta aao teals. Do out let tbem is around io aDI.uf-tbs.wiiy places, ta g -liosiy.bat bse* "a place for arary. .' tag. aod . s.-rytlnaf '•* its pises." Psaaaxrs — As aresy af ttom* may ba dag ua are required abiL th* gre mil » freMd, and MM ia UaateLrariatetel ?,T!rFr*or~-