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HOW TO MAMAGE A WIFE. ! ' tl I" By Koderick Random, Jr. h '-Dear Mr. Random: — I expect to get married shortly after the last of July. Q Of course 1 want to make a success oi f| matrimony and live happy; therefore I would like you to give me some hints # as to how to manage a wife." ), The above, from a young Philadelphia p leader, came to hand sometime ago, but ^ as 1 am private adviser to several of the ^ sovereigns and am being constantly ap- j, pealed to by tne President and members „ of Congress as to how the country should p be run, I was obliged to defer my ans- b swer. On the whole I think the subject , a much more diimcult one than any that ^ confront either Mr. Asquith or President „ Taft. Wives are hard to manage and „ men must give it up shortly after mar- c riage and allow their wives to manage , them. t and allow their wives to manage them. . j There is a popular supposition that ! after the period of courtship and honey- j g mooning the pair are substantially one v person. They are said to be, j ., Two souls with but a single thought j a Two hearts that beat as one. In reality they are nothing of the sort. 1 s Tbey are two persons with divergent 1 1 ideas in most cases. If the idea of one- ' j Less still prevails, it is a question which -j cne is the one. It «annot be both. The ! t wife isapt to consider the husband a j , very valuable, delightful and desirable , piece of property all the same. He does- t s't know much to be sure, but she like , even his ignorance and is enamored of v some of his faults. She feels bound both j by interest and affection to take good , care of him and to see that he comes to i HO harm through his lack of knowledge. , She has promised to obey, but with a i mental reservation, to the effect that in | , most cases it woulu be better for him , to do the obeying; and he generally does, , for she is far superior to him in strat j tgv and in managerial ability. If you , want to manage her oo not on any ae- , count let it transpire that you have any j such idea. Dismiss the "obey" clause in , the marriage ceremony from your mind, , and do not go into the nest like a com-mander-in-chief and issue your order as , if it was a military camp. Don't draw , up a set of rules. Rules are all right for a cemetery, inhabited by the dead, , but they hardly ever go anywhere else. When 1 went to school it was always the school master who made the most rules who had the most trouble. A house full of rules is like a house filled with In- . _li.
c verted tacks, somebody is ^Jways sit s ting down on them and disturbing the t and at the same time hurting I himself. I You cannot go about managing a wife j that plan. You must make a carestudy of the situation and go about \ it cautiously. For instance, there may r arise a question as to the desirability of t boiled dinners on Monday. You may j perhaps detest the boiled dinner, while t may be imbued with the idea that ; Monday would not be Monday without f Kow if .you want to manage you { want to be cafeful to conceal your re- ( pugnance to boiled dinners, for it is at { a mere whim, since boiled dinner arc t good as any others, and every woman ( knows it. Your only way will be to in- ] her in home collateral way ( against that kind of dinner, and if you < cannot do that, then cultivate a taste ] for boiled dinners and. issue an order i that they shall be the regular thing for l After the same plan, when- 1 ever there is litcely to be a clash on any subject, just order things so that she t I will have her own way and you will find, after a while that you will manage her admirably. In the course of events it may be pos- I sible that you will find company in the I evenings that will detain you uutil a i later hour than seems proper to her. • is often trouble in families about : the proper time for a husband to be at ' j and a man is sometimes disposed I to resent and exercise of material authority in thiB direction, as an infringement of his liberties and and his rights ■ under the Declaration of Independence. a while you can invent excuses that will be received, but eventually you will careless and work some of them often, when it is liable to lead to t breach; and if you are not very careful she will take to managing your goings and comings. In such case it is best to ascertain carefuUy her ideas as to the proper time for you to come home, and then to command yourself to come at that time. Thus you see you will be dothe managing, while at the same time allowing her to think that the is exercising her authority. In short the best and only way to manage a wife and to avoid domestic | difficulty is to find out exactly how she | wants to be managed and' then to menage her carefully according to her ideas. I 1 If you do this she will soon become im1 pressed with the conviction that you are 1 an excellent manager and commander1 in chief and will, of course, obey. It is • a trifle difficult,and complicated as you B!
see, but it can be done. If, however, after trying awhile ycrn think R fceyeat your powers, it is beat to give it up and allow her to manage you. According to ] the ceremony you have been made one, and in the matter of obedience if you ] yield to her and march under orders, you are, constructively, only- obeying • yourself after all. RODERICK RANDOM, JR. COMPLIMENTS TO THE "KNOCKER' J. Thompson Baker, of Wildwooo in an address before the Glaasboro Improvement . Association made the* remarks about the "Knocker." "There is one 'thing that will accomplish all things for you and that is unity of action, work together/— concord. It is the mightiest force on earth ; noth ing can resist it. Narrowness, selflshi nets, knocking, are unpardonable.— Oh | the knocker! he .has the worst disease j in the world. Brimstone cannot save ! him. Anybody can pull down; it takes 1 a man to build up, and-a knacker is al- | ways pulling down what others build up. A dirty, ignorant boy ean burn down your house, but cannot build St up again. Here you are, men and women, working earnestly to bring before the world inducements for people to live here. You talk, you write, you strive in every way to bring about such a result, and you have the best of reasons; but a knocker turns up, some one that sneers and says an ugly thing, a foul thing; throws cold water on your projects, says they wont work and that they will amount to nothing.' Truly, that knocker was born behind his time and is manifestly a left-over. ""
Welcome Words to Women , = Women who suffer with disorders peculiar to ibrfl1 '1 sex should write to Dr. Pierce and receive free the- A advice of a physician of over 40 years' experience I — S skilled and successful specialist in the diseases of women. Every letter of this sort has the most" careful consideration and is regarded as sacredly confidential. Many sensitively modest women write , . ■ , ,7* fully to Dr. Pieroe what they would shrink from telling to their local physician. The local physician fa pretty sure to say that he cannot do anything without "an examination." Dr. Pisrae bold* that £T mmi, abmtld ioboll to banlrili of tbc.i.eali, some of then the wret t* eneee. kJtCbe nniymedlcsne of its kind that is the product of a regularly graduated yfcy';'— • The only one «oad andwA Oat Ha makes dare to print its every MdwNiH on its ootsida wrapper. There's no aaereoy. It will beer snremiea •ten. No alcohol and no habit forming drugs are found in it. Some i—ciruptoy meifltisL dealers aeayafcrynnn substitute. Don't take it. Don't trile your health. Writs to WorWa Medical Aawciation, Dr. R. V. Pieces, President, BeBsic. N. Y.,-tafco the advice received and be welL
THE? ALL DEMAFE IT ; Cape Mav, Liks Every City sad Tens is th. Onion ' Heceivis It 1 People with kidnev^lls want to be < i citrd). When one suffers the tortures i of an aching back, relief is eagerly i sought for. There are many remedies i day that relieve but do not cor . is evidence to prove that Dean's i Kidney Pills cure, and the cure s last- : ing Michael H. Holland, Colombia Ave, Cape May, N. J.. says: "For almost a year I was afflicted with kidney trouble, brought on by a heavy cold. I had pains in the small of my back and at times was uDable to sleep well, arising in the morning tired and un reWhenever I stooped or brought strain on the muscles of my back, sharp pains darted throughout my body and I often felt miserable. I was also subject lo headaches and diary spells, during which my sight became blurred. of Doan's Kidney Pills, I decided to try them until completely cured. I have htd no trouble since. I can only say that Doan's Kidoey Pills are invaluable for kidney complaint." For sale by all dealers. Price60 cents Milburn Co.. Buffalo, New York, sole agents for the United Plates Remember the name— Dojn's — and 1 take no other. cozenImT firotjjome ron ; DRIVES BALL OVER LEFT FIELD 1 FENCE. , He and L. Machado get Four Hits Each, Wood Three— Cape May Slag Ball to All Corners of the Lot— Beat Dennlj I ville 19 to 3 — M. Machado Twirls in , Old Time Form. 1 r 1 To go into detail as to the manner ' in which Cape May scored would be ! tedious, suffice to say they scored at ' pleasure, geiting three in the first, eev j en in the second, three in the fourth, " After Dennisville had been given their 5 bat in the seventh, the game was mag- " nanimously brought to a dose; while the visitors stHl retained strength 3 enough to drag their weary bodies to "I their train. - \ CAPE MAY. ab. r. h. po. a. e. 1. j Loveland. s.s 4 3 2 3 4 1 1- j Aldendil'er. 2b 2 2 0 0 2 0 e Wood, If, ' 4 3 2 2 0 0 ■- L. Machado, rf 4 2 4 2 0 0 s Diebert, cf. 3 2 0 0 0 0 u Sattizahn, c 3 11 5 1 0 — )j. Machado, p 2 2 0 0 2 0 (.ozena, lb 4 3 4 8 0 0 Smiley, 3b 4 I 1 1 1 1 Totals: 19 15 2i 10 2 DENNISVILLE. ab. r. h. po. a. e. . Chester, If. 4 0 1 1 0 0 Howell, 3b 3 0 0 2 0 0 _ Wentzell, AS. 3 0 1 1 0 0 Mackey, rf. p 3 1 0 1 4 0. Grace, e. 2 1 0 8 1 0 Klaitx, 2b 3 1 1 1 1 0 Simon, lb 3 0 1 « 1 0 Brailove, cf 8 0 1 2 0 1 Heron, p. rf. 3 0 0 1 1 1 Total*, ' 3 6 18 8 2 Cap* May 3 7T 0 8 2 4 x— If Denni* ville, 0 0 0 0 0 0 3 — 3 Famed runs— Cape May, 12. Stolen baa** — Lovataad, AUaadifw, 2; Wood, Diebert, Battiaaka, Smiley. .A .
Struekout- — Mackado, 1; Heron, 2; Brailove, 4. HH bv pitched "ball — AHendifer, Lore land. Two-bask hit*— Cozens, 2; Brailove, Wood. Umpire— Dorner and Wale*. WHEN TRAVELING. A test of a person's good breeding is in manners when traveling. Well-bred people never do anything conspicuous or to attraet attention. They do not • talk loud boisterously. They do not ' push or jostle against others, nor do they monopolize more than a rightful share of fpace on a train. One of the most noticeable .marks of rudeness in a traveler is to plade bags or wraps on _ an adjacent seat in a train and ignore the fact that someone else is looking for a seat. Newly-married persons who are wellbred are careful not to attract notice ... by demonstrative attention* to each, other. To be dressed appropriately fo- tray-l-ing is to wear what is simple, frvvjee I ■ able and absolutely neat and fre*h. \ Shabbinesj is unpardonable. V tailor-, j ed suit of *erge, cheviot, homespun or q , lightweight worsted is indispensable ,for traveling, and will stand hard wear.-. 'r Good color* to choo* are gray, navy- _ , blue or brown. Pongee, voile, mohair, or linen dresses are frequently used in } I very warm weather, but the lightweight ! ..... — , — O A
woolen suit is a chief dependence on ' many occasions. A plentiful supply of I white washable waists is necessary, and ^ for every-day wear the simplest styles j are in best taste. A hat, not too large, 4 with plain trimming of ribbon and a . quill, is in good taste, the color harmonizing with the suit, although it need ' not absolutely match. Glpves of gray ' suede or tan dogskin are serviceable I for traveling. Silk gloves may be used < in very warm weather. — "The Ways of t Society," in The Ladies World for July. CATARRH Eli's Cream Balm KW-J daisy in*—* Gives Rettel it One*. 1 It cleanses, soothes, Sfesirjsr r I braneresnllau^from Catarrh and drives i away a Cold in the 1 FEVER ' . Taste and Smell. Fullsiz" 50 cts., atDrnq- , gists or by mail. In liqnid form, 75 cents. Elr Brot-e— 5ti Wrren Street. New Yor'*- . 1825 the >910 PENNSYLVANIA FIRE ' INSURANCECOMPANY INCORPORATID 1825. CHARTER TERPETUA'L. , OFFICE. 508-510 WALNUT ST, PHILADELPHIA, PA. ' CAPITAL, - - - - 3760,000.00 ASSETS. - - - - $7,832,524 10 ) SURPLUS, - - 82,233,426 48 DIRECTORS R. Dale Bensonr John'L Thomson , j. Tetcall Lee, Charles E- Pugh , Richard M. Csdwalader, 5 W. Gardner Crowell,. | Effingham B. Morris, Edward T, Stotesbury j Edwin N. Bensos, Jr. R, DALE BENSON, President, JOHN L.TBOMSON. Vice President7. GARDNER CROWELL, Secretary, HAMPTON L. WARNER, Assistant Secre. tary. r WM. J. DAWSON, Sec'y Agency Depart, e A- W. HAND 8. P. ELDREDGE HAND AND ELDREDGE LOCAL AGENTS '' Merchant's National Bank Bldg, or 1 815 and 817 Washington Street Cape Mav. N J. e b R. M. Wentzell 's furniture store, 88 0 Perry street, carries a great stock of furniture and household goods and many purchasers of large and small >. quantities have found that they save 1 considerable sums ©f money, while having goods delivered without dam1 age, as is not the case when purchased 0 anywhere and shipped by rail. j Are you undecided where to have your clothes made? Are you looking 0 for a first cists tailor? Are you tired of having to take the suit back for alterations and lose your time as well 1 as your temper? Avoid all the unpleasantness connected with clothes , and have them made by CEARLES SOHERER, Ladies' and Men's Tailor, Cape May, N, J. — Go to Thomas Soulta. Cold Spring, 0 for the things you need for the table, and family, and obtain satisfactory goodaatths smallest cost. Full and complst* stock, carefully selected, with knowledge born of experience gained by an active career of more that of ;any dealer b) ^>we j . - . «■ . . l' PKKRY DAVIS' PAINK1LLKB draw* the pain and hiiaiamstiy torn boa strings and inaset bttsa. Soothes >. and alloys the swfml McMgr tfaoaquite hitoa iifc^ifcSdl^bottto. _ - .. . I. ' . ' e
hand Furniture Bought ami Sold Dry Air Stsraee Ap&rtmnu - Provided et reaiooebte nte, ^ Call 103y Keystone Phone, Excelsior Bldg. W. S. SHAW & SON Gneral Contractors. Dealers in | Brick. Lime ind Cemtrt. KeystoneiTelepbone 80 A 523 ELMIRA STREET Dili iiui ^il . — n — .1 Jewelry and Watchmaking • 1 tEstablshed 1666 Large stock of carefully selected goods. Clocks of all kfato J Repairing of Watches, Clocks or Jewelry promptly and skill- -T fully done. - 3 BELFORD GARRISON WASHINGTON ST. CAPE MAT M J ] Keystone Pbone'4D |w. a. lovftt| v Coi Waslungton and Perry Sts. O I y iwdLa-TT CTTY", iJEYXT JERSEY 9 1 V MANUFACTURER OF j X HARNESS, COLLARS, SADDLES AND HORSE GOODS X I I Strap work of All Kinds. Blankets, Robes. Sheets and Nets A . The Excellsior Board AND LIVERY STABL W~ Is the newest and best equipped building for the care of and carriages in Cape May. It contains many hght box stalls for the accommodation of private driving horaefc The rates are modest, and service will be excellentj fhis" rink has closed down for the Summer, this wiB ingore quiet and comfort for the horse. For terms write C. S. NEWELL, Proprietor. West Perry Street, Cape May. Keystone Phone 1-03 Y •B EM.b i.b*d:iroi I — 1-n.i- -•»«"" ( I i "The Old Reliable Jewelry Store" [ g JOSEPH K. HAND \i S 311 WASHINGTON STREET. uk Watches, Clocks. Jewelry and Silverware. Repairing of all k I AUDIC0RIUM CAFE AND BUFFET 107 AND 109 JACKSON ST. CAFE OPEN EVE1NGS UNTIL 12 O'CLOCK . Everything in season. Ses foods and salads, Specialties Open all the year. Cottage trade eobci tod. Orders by phone promptly attended to|an<£delivered. SPECIAL— Overholt Bottled in Bond $1.00 a. quart . 1 Both Phones, ^ JOHN J.^McCANN Keystone Telephone 673 D w m m Poth's Beer ; ffhe Jf, arbor , I schellingers landing II Keystone Telephone 666 D JAMES CARROLL, WRISLEY'S NEW CAFE I Comer Waehlnflju end Jsckson Streets, . CAPE MAY, K J r Steaks, Chops. Sea Foods and Salads, Oysters in every STYLE [! BOARD BY DAY OR WEEK 8 Keystone 'phone 127 FRANK B.WRISLEY » BD. NEWELL W^N BCHBLLIHOM j ARE YOU THINKING OF HAVING A j i CEMENT PAVEMENT J I AD CURB PUT DOWN ^ J * Concrete Walla, Piers or a Cejlgr >t Ploor; if so, don't forget to coosolfl —{Newell and SchelHnger . I - y:i.;<: -jyj I ' " 1 ' Sstiinates'cbeerfnUy given * I : ""NEWELL S SCHELLINQER J u ajo Weehiegtoe at'CsreCMsy Or Wast Cage M«*

